Speed Dating

Under Speed dating is defined as a originally from the U.S. method, flirt and make new or
relationship partner, but also to find business contacts. The author (since 1998) Rabbi Yaacov
Deyo, a member of the Orthodox Jewish organization Aish HaTorah is based in Los Angeles
(California, USA). His goal was a contact platform for the Jewish community, so that Jewish
singles can meet more quickly and efficiently, with the prospect of finally getting married and
thus increase the number of Jewish marriages.

To the company founded by Rabbi Deyo speed dating a little later followed speed dating events,
usually business-oriented events with no religious requirement, where male and female singles
participate in the same number, the maximum number of participants for each gender on normally
7-10 persons is limited. Meanwhile, the speed dating enjoys in Germany emerging popularity -
in almost all major cities there are regular events of this kind. In addition to the partner
search results in the possibility, for example when moving to a new city close to fast and
innocuous new acquaintances
Procedure for speed dating
During the whole event gets everyone know every single male single female and vice versa.
For this, the event is divided into rounds, each lasting for about seven to eight minutes.
In this narrow space of time, the singles have the opportunity to get to know each other a
little to interrogate common interests and hobbies, and any desire to have children.
After expiry of the time a bell rings as a sign that asks for change of partners.
At the same time singles record on them previously handed out leaflets, whether their opponent to
see again or not. Now is moved up, so that male and female singles singles sit in a
new constellation opposite. This is repeated until each has talked to everyone again.
After the speed dating singles can decide if they want to see again just to know
the learned singles. Earlier, the organizers gathered for this purpose the previously handed out
paper and evaluated them manually. Many operators, however, are now started to analyze
the speed-dating through an online evaluation form.  One or two days after the speed dating is
the evaluation process usually terminated. At the latest after the deadline will receive
a message about the singles, which again singles of the opposite sex they want. If there is
a match, so the contact between the two singles to be replaced.

5 Date Ideas That Are Better Than Dinner

Scrap the same old boring restaurant dates in favor of something that’s actually fun?

If you ask a woman about her most memorable date ever, chances are she’s not going to mention a dinner. No matter how good the food is, there’s only so much fun you can have when you’re staring at someone across a white tablecloth. For the 800th time. No, the best dates involve some kind of actual activity beyond chewing—a friendly competition, a physical challenge, something that gets her laughing and her blood pumping. So I poured my friends some wine and interrogated them about the best dates they’ve ever been treated to, and will share the smartest ideas here. Next time you really want to impress a lady, try one of these options.
ICE SKATING
Yes, even if you both suck at it—especially if you both suck at it. Really, any activity intended for children ages 9 and under makes for an amazing date. Mini golf, batting cages, go karts, laser tag. It may sound ridiculous for two adults but that’s the point. I dare anyone to flail around an ice skating rink dodging first graders and not have an awesome time. She’ll laugh her ass off and you’ll be the creative guy with a better idea than yet another steak dinner. Afterward, catch your breath at a diner or some other casual joint. Make sure you wear some cologne, so she’ll smell your fresh Invictus fragrance, not the sweat your worked up earlier.
THE ULTIMATE NIGHT IN
OK, so technically this is dinner, but it’s way better than your typical restaurant date. Step 1: Identify her favorite dish—maybe she always orders the cassoulet at that fancy French restaurant you take her to on special occasions, for example. Step 2: Find the recipe. For maximum brownie points, call that French restaurant and beg them for the recipe. Failing that, use Google to find something similar. Step 3: Surprise her with a basket of everything you need for the ultimate date night in: A nice card with the recipe on it, all the ingredients, a candle, wine, and a special gift for her, like this sensual Olympéa perfume.
LEARN EACH OTHER’S HOBBIES
Maybe you’re a fisherman, or she’s a skier. Whatever it is, set a date to have her teach you about what she loves (and schedule another date for your favorite hobby). It’ll be endearing to see her in her element, and vice versa. Plus, by actively trying to learn and understand, it’ll show you care about her. The “teaching” can get intimate, too, which is never a bad thing.My friend Jen’s boyfriend took her to a gun range on their second date. “It was oddly romantic,” she says. “He showed me how to properly hold the guns, how to stand and brace, and he was so proud when I did well.” (Note: Not every girl is as game as Jen to go to a gun range. Make sure you ask, don’t tell, her about this date idea.)
BASEBALL GAME
This makes for a great first or second date—provided she has at least a passing interest in sports and/or sitting in the sunshine with a beer. Baseball is slow enough to give you plenty of time to have get-to-know-you conversation, but without any awkward pauses, because there’s always a game to watch. Plus there’s none of the stiff formality of an upscale restaurant. Casual settings always make for easier conversation.
SURPRISE EXCURSION
Tell her to meet you at 9 a.m. but don’t tell her what for. Then surprise her with day exploring a locale an hour or so away. Maybe it’s the wine country upstate, a beach town she’s never been to, or hell, even a neighborhood in your city that you’ve always meant to check out. Wherever you are, there's probably a place within a 30- to 40-mile radius with something fun to offer, even if it’s just novelty. Pick one, and plan to spend the day wandering and exploring what the region has to offer. Even if it’s a podunk place with nothing but a rundown coffee shop, it'll give you both a sense of adventure.

Welcome to Dating Blog

You may want to know whose advice you read before you take some of them seriously.
First of all, I am a man, I'm not a Casanova or a womanizer, but I came out already
with a lot of women have gained the necessary experience. The information on
this page fit for both men and women. The emphasis is on men but surely.
For me, dating was something very important. I have not really fallen. I had to work
very hard to get where I am today. It is my definite conviction that one can learn dating.
If you want to improve your dating skills, you are dead right. I have the trip you take now,
already been made: dating newbie to dating guru. Most of my current appointments was
very successful and if they do not, it was likely as not to me. So welcome to
this Siete and I hope I help you with your dating life is something!
Catch the best of it, read the article "The First Date."
If you master this, you will be destined for "Tips for First Dates" and
"interested in dating rules."
If you have ascended to dating professional and have lots of appointments,
you should inform yourself about what's important to note when you
"go out simultaneously with several people."

Dating rules

Let us discuss a few dating rules. These rules are obviously not set in stone,
but they can generally be beneficial. The rules are particularly interesting for those new
to the dating world and will help you to survive the first date.
1 Let's take it easy, no complicated arrangements. That means no dinner by candlelight,
no flowers, no stopping and no excessive door somber conversations about the future.
Just be two people who have fun together. Nothing more, nothing less.
2 Keep a back door open. This is especially important if you meet someone you
have met online. Are you planning a first date always so that you can leave it at any time
if it is running very poorly. Meet for a drink or a coffee and prepare it so much so that
the other person know that you only have one hour to the next appointment. Such "events"
can still "magically" disappear when you get on well.
3 Keep your schedule flexible. One of the biggest mistakes in newcomers, the planning of
the conspiracy to take too well. A date is not a class outing. You do not need to know at
every moment what would happen the next moment. Relax, let yourself go and you do not plan
too much. You can get quiet before a few thoughts, but you can run the evening, as he runs.
4th Do not go to the movies. Movies are not really for first appointments. They are not really bad.
If you are extremely shy, it may even be beneficial to spend two hours with someone
without having to talk to. However, I would at the first meeting, if possible, refrain from
the cinema.
5th No dinner for the first time the same as with the cinema, but for another reason.
Ironically, many people believe, the first meeting should be a movie and dinner.
This is just awful! Food is too serious and too personal. To eat with someone whom you barely know,
is unpleasant. Stand out this for later on. At the first appointment, you'd better have a drink.
6th Not overdo it with your wardrobe! Appointments should not be as serious, but fun.
A person's clothing has a major influence on their personality. If someone is dressed very poorly,
 he usually has no self confidence. Extremely well-dressed people often seem arrogant.
Put on just adequate. That means casual, relaxed, but appealing.
7th Humor, humor, humor! The importance of humor when an appointment can not be overemphasized.
People like to spend time with other people who make them laugh. You can look completely average.
If you have a cheerful nature, you will be more popular than any supermodel.
8th No talks on the former or, okay?
9th No big words, please! Do not come to your appointment with an arsenal of cool sayings that
you have read in some silly magazine. That is always lame and transparent. Just relax and be
as you are. If you do not like the others for your own sake, then so be it and you do not have to
keep your time to disappear.
10th Use the name of the other. People like to hear their own name. So instead of saying,
"You are indeed quite a daredevil," say they prefer ". So Catherine, you're quite a daredevil,
" You may, however, do not overdo it. When I started even with the dating, I once told a girl,
she found me strange because I've always said your name. That was embarrassing!
11th Build on others. Pull it down or never. This can be complicated. You should not build
the other by sucking up to. For this you can not expect respect. Give her his opponent just felt
a great person. The best way to achieve this, you give to him or "I am so with you."
You are great, the other is too great, since he or she is with you.
12th No other girls or guys look behind!
13th Treat waiters and bartenders generous, even if you feel they were overpaid and easily
replaced (which is also true). The way you treat people in the service industry,
says a lot about you as a person. Give good tips, please be kind.
Do not expect too much from them and not treat them unfavorably.
14th They do not complain. Point. You complain about absolutely nothing.
People complain they're not particularly popular. The only allowable exception is
for someone else to complain: "What your friend did was not fair to you."
15th Do not expect anything. The fact that someone agreed with you, is not an invitation to sex.
The other person owes you nothing, and vice versa. Just enjoy the moment. That is enough.

The first date

Probably the most stressful part in dating it is to find a date at all. The fear of
rejection makes asking for a date, often a test of nerves. Thankfully,
modern technology offers ways to reduce the fear of rejection or avoid altogether.
Here are some tips for arranging an appointment:
1 Do not make it too complicated and just be yourself asking someone out on a date,
does not need to be insanely great thing. You do not have to stand for hours in
front of the mirror and rehearse your text. Move forward in increments.
Ask them to call the phone number of the other, a couple of times,
or replace a couple of SMS messages. Get in touch with an idea for going out and
ask others if they want or they go along. The whole thing is not scary when you leave it out.
2 Use online dating services. I'm personally not a big fan of Internet dating.
I prefer to meet other people in the "real world" and have also gained the impression
that people use online dating sites, usually a little below the level of
the ideal entertainment partner. However, we can not deny that online dating is a
very efficient way for an appointment. Whole books could be written only
on successful Internet dating. I will not discuss in this article specifically on it,
but basically it makes sense to send an e-mail (BTW: This wink smileys are lame).
Say what funny, write each other a few times and if you feel you are interested,
please ask for a date. The fear of rejection is the online dating almost completely left out,
so you do not talk too long about the bush. If there is even the slightest signs of arcing,
and do not be afraid to hit you.
3 Turn your friends into dates. If you are a friendly person who knows many other people to
develop Dates mostly all by itself, this is probably the easiest way to get a date. Be friendly,
approachable and take things with other people. The chances are good that you meet someone and
become the date in a natural way.
4th Make use of SMS. I love everything about text messages. They are the perfect dating tool.
When you meet someone, you do not like asking for a Date. Just ask for the phone number.
Do you have the time, you can flirt via text message. Text is such a wonderfully innocuous
form of communication. It is normal that each of the others an hour or two later,
responding to a message. All the pressure and the intensity fall off of one. In addition,
one can estimate the interest of another person, without jeopardizing his own ego too much.
Text is simply a nice, personal way to flirt with someone. Once a relationship is established,
ask the others to meet with you for a drink.
5th Try your dating skills not to colleagues. It can be very tempting to ensnare colleagues.
Finally, you are always with them together. As logical as this may seem too romantic
relationships with colleagues usually end in absolute chaos. You can shake any professionalism
that you have built up in the core or even ruin. Rumors and innuendo of the dear colleagues at
the two lovebirds can be very damaging. Also, you would after a successful date,
and then the resulting relationship is no longer break from your partner.
Even if you idolize someone, you should maintain a certain minimum distance in daily life.

Going out with several people

If you get seriously into the "dating market", you will be traveling with quite
a few people here and there may well be some overlap. Some may find this objectionable,
but I do not think that there are fundamental ethical objections to this practice.
In life some people it is very useful to maintain multiple superficial relationships, as deep.
There's nothing wrong with that.
However, the dating can be a problem with several people. I feel very strongly for
the people with whom I go out. Even if I'm not really into them, I still have high respect for
them as a person and will do anything that might hurt their feelings. And right there lies
the problem. Here are some things you should be aware when you go out with several people:
Do not talk about others
I never talk to the person with whom I have just composed, by another person with whom I go out.
From the perspective of my particular dates, they are the only person I meet. Do not get me wrong.
I would not incite to lie. If I were to ask one of the persons with whom I go out,
how many other people in the meet, I would say that I do not think this conversation particularly
effective. If they would insist on an answer, I would tell her the truth.
When dating, it's about two people that enjoy the company of others and show their affection for
each other. These special feelings you can not teach if they are constantly talking about another
person and then look through even make it this is not just an ordinary friendship.
Women are particularly bad in this respect. Please, dear ladies! We do not want to hear from
other men when we go out with you. If you go out with someone, then you give him or
her 100 percent of your affection and attention.
Take notes
It sounds a bit strange, but I'm happy to note the people with whom I go out.
I write on where they come from, what they do for a living, what things they like or funny
things that we talked about. After every appointment I make a few notes on this meeting,
and keep at it. Should I go out again with the same person, I watch a few minutes before I
losgehe at my notes. This method helps me to get into the mood, so my date is given full
attention. You must not write detailed essays. A few specific key points should be enough to get
the person to recall.
Set mute your phone
When I go out I put my phone on "vibrate only". The same thing I propose to you also,
even if you go out with currently only one person. If your phone constantly during
the appointment makes noise, it can completely destroy your mood or your date's
confidence (in you). I only watch it on my phone when the other person goes to the toilet or
for other reasons I'm alone for a moment.
Keep your bedroom clean
If an appointment ends in your bedroom, you should ensure that no traces indicate other
individuals with whom you go out. Before you go out, you should condom packaging,
long blonde hair and similar in principle to remove and clean up. I can assure you that no
one even intimate nascent meeting ended as abruptly as the discovery of an empty condom wrapper in the trash.

Tips for First Date

First dates can be pretty scary. Finally, you are a representative of the opposite sex,
the subject you know nothing or almost nothing, for a long time. I personally think
the first date is always nice. The experience you have with each person only once this respect,
it is something special, even if it never anything serious. The "discovery phase" of
a relationship is the most exciting time. And on the first date there discover a great deal.
Here are a few pointers that may help you are on a first date.
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Show your sense of humor
The best way to break the ice, which normally is present at every first meeting, is humor.
This is not a time for seriousness. They hardly know each other. Get loose and you get others to
laugh, even if you take it yourself for a ride.
Go to different places
When the first meeting anlässt well, you beat calmly before a change of scenery.
Proven to feel more people attracted to each other if they had been together in various places
such as bars, shops, clubs etc..
Have you always resonate some sex
Sometimes, on a first date is a risk that they "only" is the friendship.
Maybe there is some affection, but a real relationship, it is not enough. To prevent this,
you should always bring a little sexual tension into the game. But do not overdo it,
because that could lead to the other uncomfortable. A good tip is to always keep humor.
You can give the date a sexual undertone, but this disguised as harmless humor.



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Do not get drunk
While it is advisable to take a first date a drink or two, to be loose. I think both partners
should treat themselves on a first date a couple of cocktails, as many people in this situation
in the fasted state not a very good figure. However, you should not overdo it.
Everything is fine as long as two cocktails are not five or six and make yourself ridiculous.
The chances for a reunion would be quite low.
Do not interview
Probably the biggest mistake that people on a first date goes under, is to ask too many questions
about the other. Relax! It's not about to find within an hour as much as possible about the other
person out. I make sure to ask little as possible and prefer to talk about something funny or
trivial. If the other person says, for example, that they really like the beach,
I'll tell a funny anecdote about how the paparazzi follow me around on the beach ".
Looking good just has certain disadvantages," Do you understand what I mean? Note:
If you look really good, you should not say something better. It sounds arrogant.
For me it works because when I look it is obvious that this is just a joke.
Do not make the first date for dinner
Make another mistake that inexperienced dater, the other person at the first dinner date is
to be executed. Food is something formal and serious. I always stay to take first dates just for
a drink. If things go well and you're both hungry, you can still eat a little later.
Avoid easy to move the food in the heart of their appointment.
Be not the first time for sex from
The first date is not the time to coincide with the door into the house. A quick hug goodbye say
when? Clear. A goodbye kiss? No problem. "Will you come with me?" Probably not a good idea.
I do not mean that you should refuse sex. As the evening moves clearly in that direction,
then you should do the course. But you exert any pressure, because that way the others will
probably never see again.