the subject you know nothing or almost nothing, for a long time. I personally think
the first date is always nice. The experience you have with each person only once this respect,
it is something special, even if it never anything serious. The "discovery phase" of
a relationship is the most exciting time. And on the first date there discover a great deal.
Here are a few pointers that may help you are on a first date.
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Show your sense of humor
The best way to break the ice, which normally is present at every first meeting, is humor.
This is not a time for seriousness. They hardly know each other. Get loose and you get others to
laugh, even if you take it yourself for a ride.
Go to different places
When the first meeting anlässt well, you beat calmly before a change of scenery.
Proven to feel more people attracted to each other if they had been together in various places
such as bars, shops, clubs etc..
Have you always resonate some sex
Sometimes, on a first date is a risk that they "only" is the friendship.
Maybe there is some affection, but a real relationship, it is not enough. To prevent this,
you should always bring a little sexual tension into the game. But do not overdo it,
because that could lead to the other uncomfortable. A good tip is to always keep humor.
You can give the date a sexual undertone, but this disguised as harmless humor.
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Do not get drunk
While it is advisable to take a first date a drink or two, to be loose. I think both partners
should treat themselves on a first date a couple of cocktails, as many people in this situation
in the fasted state not a very good figure. However, you should not overdo it.
Everything is fine as long as two cocktails are not five or six and make yourself ridiculous.
The chances for a reunion would be quite low.
Do not interview
Probably the biggest mistake that people on a first date goes under, is to ask too many questions
about the other. Relax! It's not about to find within an hour as much as possible about the other
person out. I make sure to ask little as possible and prefer to talk about something funny or
trivial. If the other person says, for example, that they really like the beach,
I'll tell a funny anecdote about how the paparazzi follow me around on the beach ".
Looking good just has certain disadvantages," Do you understand what I mean? Note:
If you look really good, you should not say something better. It sounds arrogant.
For me it works because when I look it is obvious that this is just a joke.
Do not make the first date for dinner
Make another mistake that inexperienced dater, the other person at the first dinner date is
to be executed. Food is something formal and serious. I always stay to take first dates just for
a drink. If things go well and you're both hungry, you can still eat a little later.
Avoid easy to move the food in the heart of their appointment.
Be not the first time for sex from
The first date is not the time to coincide with the door into the house. A quick hug goodbye say
when? Clear. A goodbye kiss? No problem. "Will you come with me?" Probably not a good idea.
I do not mean that you should refuse sex. As the evening moves clearly in that direction,
then you should do the course. But you exert any pressure, because that way the others will
probably never see again.
