As you prepare for this first meeting, what to look for, what you should do in any case,
you learn here.
Online dating not only offers many opportunities but also many risks. So a couple of really
serious dating tips for the first meeting with the potential future life partner.
Meet on neutral ground - in a bar, a restaurant in a park - definitely a lot of people busy and
visible place. On the Internet there are black sheep and chaotic. Tell a friend, a girlfriend,
where you meet. Catch up on any case on the first date in your own home. This is a big risk.
Limit the time for the start of the first date. That is, if you make the first meeting,
then do the same show that only 30 or 60 minutes to spare. If the other turns out to be a disaster,
or boring pain in the ass, you can say goodbye gracefully after a short time.
Announce before the first date, no phone numbers or other contact information (email address).
Enter your anonymity on only if you have taken some confidence to the other - maybe the second
meeting? When you enter your landline number, please remember that everyone can get out
of having your phone number on the Internet and your address. Use e-mail address as a free e-mail
address.
Turn off your cell phone number transfer. To avoid the callee experiencing your mobile
phone number. You want to give up your own number? Not recommended: the private,
fixed line because you can find it on various Internet services your address.
It is best to use a prepaid phone card.
Do not be picked up at home and can not after the date take her home. Do not take the car
the other a piece.
Are you interested in the other. Why? Who interesssiert for others is interesting.
And how do you do that? Quite simply by open-ended questions. These are questions to which you
can not answer with yes or no. Open questions start with How, 'Why?, In what way?, Where?
Through open-ended questions keep a conversation going and make it interesting and rich.
If you want to learn to entertain themselves at ease, then the counselor is only a first step,
heart to the right place for you.
Confidence is extremely important. With a good self-confidence to act on other attractive and
interesting. If you behave like a little gray mouse, then you should not be surprised if others
see you as the little gray mouse and turn away.
If you generally lacking in confidence and think little of themselves, then the counselor is
This win-win you more confidence highly recommended.
What should a first date talk not: Talk to the first meeting never know when you feel lonely and
unhappy. Also failed relationships, problems with the ex or the ex is flirting killer.
Such topics gymnastics from most people. The first date is not finally overcome the past and
the processing of disappointments.
Are absolutely taboo topics such as politics, money, and sexual issues - women love,
remember - fertility. When you see the man on the first date of you on the subject of
children speak to them, then that was probably the first and last meeting with this man
Give out at the first meeting not all of himself. This is a kind of precaution that your
protection is also a psychological strategy. So say not concrete, in which employer you work for,
the industry is completely sufficient (or do you know that your acquaintance will surprise you
after work in front of your office?) If you have one or the other in the dark,
then the mystery have that makes you interesting. Just as likely your counterpart at
the first meeting, all his socks are cheap, you should not do it.
Do not be fooled by appearances. Cars can be leased and expensive designer suits can
be bought on credit, the Rolex on the arm can be a deceptively real-looking replica, and, and ...
Take your time getting to know each other. Listen to him to encourage him to talk about
themselves and see whether the way, as he says and what he says, is consistent and you like it.
Talk as possible before the first meeting by telephone at the other. Why? Because the voice of
a man very much can be said about him or because you feel often been at the way the other speaks,
can decide whether you want to meet him. This only works if the other gives you his number or
give up your anonymity and tell the other your number. (See above)
Topics that are taboo on the first date: infertility (male turns her off rather than on),
or the explosion of personal problems, complaints about their own personal, financial,
family or professional situation.
What should be the Prince Charming or the dream girl?
The more accurate you should have an idea of ??your future partner should be like,
what properties, interests and values ??he has, the better the chances of finding
the right people to find partners. It is therefore important that you understand your
expectations clear. The single test will help you.
